From Complacency to Clarity: A Journey of Faith and Self-Discovery

 I am recently divorced. Before that, my ex-husband and I were stuck in a state of complacency. However, something changed in 2023—though, in hindsight, that change was likely building long before then. One day, my perspective shifted, and I began to see my ex-husband in a completely new light. I noticed his flaws—flaws I had always known about but had chosen to overlook. This time, I saw them for what they were: unchanging and unchangeable. It became clear that he and I had grown apart. Around this time, I also found my way back to God.

    During this period, I struggled. I found peace and joy in reading devotional books my mother had given me (but which I hadn’t read until then) and in studying the Bible. Yet, I felt an overwhelming sense of discontent whenever my husband was around. Looking back, I believe this was God showing me the truth: “You’ve changed, but he hasn’t.”

    As I grew more confident in my faith and in my identity through God, it began to show in ways that startled my ex-husband. He commented that he felt like he had to tiptoe around me. Ironically, I had always felt that way about him. I constantly monitored my words and actions to avoid conflict, particularly during arguments, because I prioritized his demands and moods over my own well-being.
    Now, I can see that I had spent years ignoring his flaws while tirelessly trying to change my own to keep the peace. This approach wasn’t healthy for me, and it certainly wasn’t beneficial for our marriage.
    Before we separated, I suggested several times that we return to attending church. However, my husband dismissed the idea after a pastor made a comment about violence in video games during a sermon. It put him off completely. Reflecting on that moment, I realize now that he didn’t want to hear anything that might challenge or convict him to change. Those of us who follow God understand that conviction, while uncomfortable, is a necessary step in transformation.

    Over time, it became evident that my husband was not willing—or perhaps not able—to become the kind of partner I needed. Through prayer and reflection, I came to understand what God had been trying to tell me: “The person you need must allow Me to dwell within them, so I can be a source of comfort for you.”

    Trusting God with our relationships is not always easy, but I’ve learned that He reveals the truth about the people we love when we are ready to see it. Sometimes, that truth can be heartbreaking, as it was for me. When God opened my eyes, it became clear that my marriage was no longer sustainable.

    In closing, I have questioned whether I could have done more to save my marriage. But through prayer and messages like the one that inspired this essay, I feel reassured that there was nothing more I could have done once God revealed the truth to me. Without even realizing it at the time, I had been trusting Him all along, even with my broken marriage. He helped me refocus my heart and attention back on Him, where they belong.

Embracing Myself

 

For a long time, I saw myself as broken. The reason? A learning disability compounded by challenges in physical and emotional growth. I felt misunderstood—even by my own family. In response, I gravitated toward people who were different, often those with personalities that leaned toward the darker side of life. What I didn’t realize was that this opened the door for dysfunctional people to enter my life. Their personalities weren’t necessarily dark, but they weren’t as understanding as I initially believed.

Over time, I began to notice red flags in their behavior. They didn’t hate me, but they were often dismissive of my feelings. I tolerated it because I thought no one else would accept me or truly understand me. Looking back, I see that my perception of myself as dysfunctional drew these kinds of relationships into my life. But now, I understand that I am not dysfunctional. Yes, I have flaws. Yes, I am complex. But I am not broken.

I am learning to see myself as God sees me. And in His eyes, I am beautiful, intelligent, and compassionate. I am perfectly imperfect. Like everyone, I have room to grow, but being a better person doesn’t mean I’m starting from a place of dysfunction. God has never seen me that way, even when I saw myself in that light. To Him, I am whole, and He will continue to guide me as I become the best version of myself.

Walking With Faith - Embracing The Struggle

 

I struggle! I struggle every day to keep my faith. It’s not always easy. There are good days when I feel hopeful. Then there are days when I question why I am here on Earth and what my purpose is. On those good days, I smile, full of life and gratitude to God for what I have been given, always mindful not to take it for granted. However, on those not-so-good days, I feel sad, angry, and full of questions.

It’s always a back and forth with me—good days and not-so-good days. But I continue to pray. I pray for my family, I pray for others, and I pray for myself. I do my best to focus on the good things and not let the bad things get the better of me. It is a struggle.

I continue to struggle, I continue to go back and forth, and I continue to pray.

I pray for answers, I pray for peace of mind, and most of all, I pray because it is the only thing that seems to make sense. Nothing else does.

Yes, I struggle... I openly admit that I struggle. I am human after all.

On those not-so-good days, I consistently pray for one thing: I ask God to continue to walk with me.

Breaking Free of Complaceny

 

We humans crave comfort. We find solace in familiar routines, predictable patterns, and the assurance of the status quo. However, this comfort can often become a cage, confining us to a limited existence.

Life, in its unpredictable nature, frequently challenges our comfort zones. Whether it's a sudden job loss, a devastating natural disaster, or the end of a significant relationship, these disruptions can leave us feeling lost and uncertain. In the face of such change, it's easy to cling to the past, yearning for the familiar.

Yet, it's precisely in these moments of upheaval that we have the opportunity to grow and evolve. Perhaps these disruptions are divine interventions, designed to shake us out of our complacency and propel us towards a more fulfilling future. It's a wake-up call, urging us to question our stagnant routines and embrace new possibilities.

God, in His infinite wisdom, desires our growth and transformation. He wants us to step out of our comfort zones and into a life of purpose and meaning. Trusting in His plan, even when it involves change, is essential. By letting go of the past and embracing the future, we open ourselves to blessings we may not have imagined.

As creatures of habit, we often resist change. However, the world around us is constantly evolving, and we must adapt to keep pace. By allowing God to guide our steps, we can overcome our fear of the unknown and embrace the challenges that lie ahead.

Let us choose to break free from the chains of complacency and allow God to lead us towards a brighter future.

Isaiah 43:18-19 (NIV): “Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.”

The Old Chapel

Her ankle-length purple gauze dress danced gently in the soft breeze as she walked down the sun-dappled dirt road. The golden light bathed her brown eyes and highlighted her slightly deep café au lait complexion. Though her face was neutral, a sense of calm had settled within her. She was neither sad nor happy, simply adrift in a sea of uncertainty.

The old chapel, a solitary sentinel on the road, was her sanctuary. It was the only place where her mind could find peace, even when her bedroom offered no solace. As she approached, she ascended the steps and turned the brass doorknob.

Despite the age of the exterior, the inside of the chapel exuded a timeless charm. The wooden pews, polished and steady, bore no signs of wear. Soft, ambient light filtered through stained glass windows, casting vibrant hues of red, gold, and amber. These windows depicted scenes of angels and saints, their colors as vivid and their details as sharp as if they had been crafted yesterday.

The walls were painted a soft, creamy white, providing a perfect backdrop for the rich autumnal tones of the stained glass. Delicate sconces holding flickering candles lined the walls, adding a gentle, warm light that complemented the natural sunlight streaming in.

At the front of the chapel, the altar was a masterpiece of craftsmanship. Made from dark, polished wood, it featured intricate carvings of vines and leaves, symbolizing growth and renewal. A simple, yet elegant, white cloth draped over it, with a golden chalice and a beautifully bound Bible resting on top.

The floor was a mosaic of polished stone tiles, arranged in a pattern that led your eyes towards the altar. Each step she took echoed softly, adding to the serene and contemplative atmosphere of the space.

In the corners of the chapel, there were small niches with statues of saints, each one illuminated by a soft spotlight, highlighting their serene expressions and detailed features. The air was filled with a faint scent of incense, adding to the sense of peace and reverence.

It was a place where the past and present blended seamlessly, creating a timeless sanctuary for reflection and prayer. Exactly where she needed to be.

As she sat down in one of the pews, a deep breath filled her lungs. Her gaze fell upon the podium that stood behind the altar. A spirited gospel song, sung by a soulful voice, filled the air. Unexpectedly, a figure materialized before the altar. It was an older man with dark skin, brown eyes, and black hair, dressed in a neat suit. Behind him, a choir stood in perfect formation. To her astonishment, figures began to appear in the pews, as if summoned by the music.

They were all singing along with the older man and the choir. The song they were singing brought tears to her eyes. She bowed her head as tears continued to fall. She felt a strange warmth around her. She smiled a bit, while tears still streamed down her face. The older man, the choir, and the people singing kept repeating the chorus of the song, getting louder and louder.

When they finally ended the song, everyone clapped, cheered, and shouted. Soon, all was quiet, and she was there by herself. The strange feeling of warmth was still around her, holding her close.

“I know that you've likely gotten tired of me saying the same thing to you,” a voice whispered in her mind and soul. “You've asked me questions. You've given me suggestions about your worship. You've cried, begged, yelled, and gone to sleep angry. You wake up the next day sad, only half-listening to me and doing any devotion with half interest because you are still sad and angry.”

“You tell me time and again that you don't have any faith left. You still yell, beg, and cry. You've put yourself down, criticized yourself for your shortcomings. You dwell on what you could have done differently in your life. You criticize yourself for the choices you made. You've asked me to have your family put you away. You've even gone as far as to say that if I allowed human beings to turn back time, you would have erased your own existence.”

“And yet, I still say... Have Faith.”

She sighed as tears continued to fall from her eyes.

“I know why you like the song that you've heard. Because it gives reassurance even though you say you don't have any faith left. Yet, I still say... Have Faith.”

“I will always be here for you. I am walking with you. I know that you are having a hard time with all that is going on in your life. However, I am here, I am walking with you.”

“So, I say again... Have Faith.”

Suddenly, she heard another voice speak, rather sing, and it came from the podium.

“♫I Don't Believe He brought me this far to leave me♫”

Once again, tears fell from her eyes. For a moment, she continued to sit there. She finally wiped away the tears and stood up. She took one more look at the chapel and then exited the building. As she made her way back home, she heard this...

“Are you still uncertain?”

Without speaking, she replied, “Yes,” as she nodded her head.

“Then we will talk tonight.”

She simply nodded her head as she continued home, feeling a strange sense of peace and anticipation for the conversation to come.

God's Reminder to Me - Stand Firm

 

For some time now, I have been feeling not very upbeat. There are moments when I manage to be positive, but they are fleeting. More often than not, I find myself engulfed in anger, sadness, and a desire to shut myself away from the world. I prayed often, keeping my eyes and heart open for anything that might help me reclaim some positivity. However, this reclaimed positivity was always short-lived.

One day, I woke up and followed my usual routine. I read my devotional book and my Bible, but I still didn’t feel any better. It wasn’t until I turned on the television and tuned into TBN that I began to feel a shift. Steven Furtick, Pastor of Elevation Church, was speaking, and his words started to lighten my spirit. He spoke from Acts 4:13-14, and through his sermon, I felt God urging me to stand firm in my faith.

I realized that I should not underestimate myself. Just because I did not finish high school does not mean I stopped learning. Just because I am not outspoken does not mean I have nothing important to say. As I write this, I hear God in my heart saying, “Stand Firm! Do not be discouraged!”

Standing firm is not always easy for me. There are times when I feel like I am floundering, scared, and unsure of what to do. In those moments, I always turn to God. Even though He does not always answer immediately, when He does, I am amazed by the creative ways He responds.

It is these amazing things that He does, the wonderful ways He answers prayers and concerns, that remind me of how wonderful God is. Through His creative ways, He helps me reclaim positivity and restores my faith. I am thankful to God for all the ways He helps restore faith, being a light in the darkness.

As I continue to walk with God, I am reminded that there will still be moments when I feel lost, scared, and confused. In those times, I might waver in my faith, but I will always turn to God. He reminds me that He is with me and encourages me to “Stand Firm.”

The Path to Harmony

 

Once upon a time, in the grand tapestry of creation, God painted the universe with celestial hues, adorning it with the sun, the moon, and the stars. He then crafted the Earth, a verdant masterpiece teeming with life, including the sentient beings who would walk upon its surface. Yet, as time passed, a subtle discord began to weave its way into the harmonious fabric of humanity.

The seeds of division were sown in the fertile soil of human nature. Ethnicity, social standing, gender, and countless other factors became the battlegrounds upon which we pitted ourselves against one another. These divisions, seemingly endless, were not merely superficial differences but deep-rooted prejudices that clouded our judgment and hindered our progress.

Why do we harbor such animosity towards those who are different from us? The answer lies within the intricate workings of the human mind. When confronted with the unfamiliar, our primal instincts often lead us to react negatively. We instinctively recoil from anything that challenges our existing beliefs or threatens our sense of security. We may ignore it, belittle it, or even fear it, as if it were a threat to our very existence.

This fear stems from a deep-seated resistance to change. Humans are creatures of habit, and we often cling to the familiar, even when it is no longer serving us. We fear the unknown, the uncertain, and the possibility of having to adapt to new circumstances. We resist anything that forces us to step outside of our comfort zones and confront our own limitations.

However, the world is a dynamic place, and change is an inevitable force. As time marches forward, we must adapt or perish. We cannot cling to outdated beliefs and practices while expecting to thrive in a rapidly evolving world. It is imperative that we embrace change with open arms and strive to become better versions of ourselves.

To achieve a more harmonious and equitable world, we must cultivate a spirit of acceptance and understanding. Instead of dwelling on our differences, we must focus on our shared humanity. We must strive to see beyond superficial appearances and recognize the inherent dignity and value of every individual.

God's love is a beacon of hope in a world often shrouded in darkness. It is a love that transcends all boundaries, a love that embraces the sinner and the saint alike. If we can emulate God's love in our own lives, we can create a world where compassion, kindness, and understanding prevail.

Let us reject the divisive forces that have plagued humanity for far too long. Let us instead choose love, unity, and a commitment to building a better future for ourselves and for generations to come.

John 13:34-35  

    A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this, everyone will know hat you are my disciples, if you love one another.

Heart Broken, But Healing

 

Walking with God has revealed many profound truths to me. One such truth is that heartbreak is inevitable. Relationships—whether friendships, marriages, or otherwise—can unravel. You might attempt to “fix” things, only to realize that there's nothing to "fix." Sometimes, you simply outgrow those relationships. This doesn’t mean that some relationships can’t be mended over time. However, there are moments when you know the relationship has run its course, and it’s time to let go and focus on what God has planned for you.

Yes, your heart is broken, and it hurts deeply. But healing will come in time. You will shed many tears and question yourself, wondering if things could have turned out differently. However, dwelling on the past only postpones the truth: God is shaping you into something better. You’ve outgrown those relationships, and God is guiding them out of your life to create space for something greater.

Yes, it’s heartbreaking when relationships come to an end. No one wants to experience that kind of pain, but it’s a part of life. Even in those moments, God is with you. He sees your suffering and surrounds you with His comfort and love. He doesn’t expect you to heal quickly; He will give you all the time you need to move forward.

He says this: “Your heart will heal.” And it will. Your heart will heal. It won’t be easy, but it will heal. There will be good days and bad days. But your heart will heal.

In this time of grieving, you’ll come to realize something: the world keeps turning, people still care about you, and God’s love remains unwavering. You’ll see that while your heart may be broken, it will heal.

Psalms 34:18

The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.

Revenge - Just Walk Way

 

Revenge, that burning desire to see a wrongdoer suffer, often masquerades as a path to happiness. However, the truth is far bleaker. Dedicating oneself to vengeance exacts a heavy toll, stripping away the very essence of who you are. It's crucial to ask, what pushes someone down this dark path?

The answer often lies in the erosion of trust, kindness, and integrity. We've all encountered those who manipulate and exploit, leaving us feeling hurt and disrespected. It's in these moments that the seductive whisper of revenge arises, the yearning to inflict the same pain we endured.

While the act of retaliation might offer a fleeting sense of satisfaction, it ultimately diminishes you. Sinking to the level of your tormentor offers no true victory. Consider past instances where you were wronged, but chose to walk away. Recall the sense of empowerment that came from rising above the situation. That's the real power – refusing to be controlled by negativity.

True strength lies in the art of letting go. Close the door on negativity, walk away with your head held high. Learn from the experience, use it to develop better judgment, but don't let it define you. Revenge may provide a temporary high, but lasting satisfaction comes from personal growth and a refusal to be consumed by bitterness.

Remember, while retaliation might feel momentarily fulfilling, it's a hollow victory. When wronged, choose the more difficult path: forgive, learn, and walk away. In doing so, you reclaim your power and emerge stronger, not diminished.

Romans 12:19 (NIV): "Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord."

A Match Made In Grace

 

“Have you lost your mind?” Aubrina asked, her short, raven hair framing a face kissed by the sun, giving her complexion a flawless, natural tan. Her vibrant green eyes, usually filled with warmth, now sparkled with puzzlement and irritation.

Victoria just shrugged and smiled. “No, I haven’t lost my mind,” she said.

Victoria, with her long red hair, brown eyes, and fair complexion that could tan, was equally lovely. Both women were shapely, not quite curvaceous but definitely not a single-digit size.

“You’re suggesting I enter a contest where I could win a ‘husband’ and get married in Bora Bora. Yes, Vicki, I think you’ve lost your mind,” said Aubrina.

“Come on, Brina. Have an open mind,” Victoria urged.

“I’m trying, but all I see is absurdity,” Aubrina said, crossing her arms.

“I carefully read the terms of the contest. If you and the husband find you’re not compatible, the marriage will be null and void,” Victoria explained.

“Vicki, I know I’m lonely, but I didn’t say I’m desperate,” Aubrina replied.

“Look, it’s just an idea,” Victoria said.

“I don’t know who’s worse at playing matchmaker for me, you or my sister,” Aubrina sighed.

As if on cue, Aubrina’s phone rang. It was her sister, Catherine.

“Oh no!” she groaned.

“Let me guess, Cathy,” Victoria said.

Aubrina shook her head. It was bad enough that Catherine had set her up on a blind date with a co-worker of her husband, Jason. The man turned out to be a total jerk, with a personality so grating it made cheese curds seem smooth. Now her best friend was suggesting she enter a contest to win a husband. Enough was enough! This wasn’t a rom-com; it was her life.

Aubrina answered her phone and put it on speaker.

“Hello,” said Catherine.

“Hello, Cathy. I have something to say to you and Vicki. I’m getting a dog. I’ll be volunteering more at the animal shelter, enrolling in a floral design class at the local college, and taking Sunday trips to the nursing home to spend time with the residents. That way, I’ll be so busy that you two can finally stop playing matchmaker for me,” Aubrina declared firmly.

Neither woman said anything.

“Now that I’ve said my piece, yes, Cathy, we’re still having lunch together tomorrow. And yes, Vicki, we’ll still go shopping this weekend. Anything else?” Aubrina asked.

“Nope, I’ll see you tomorrow, sis. Love ya,” said Catherine, hanging up.

Aubrina looked at Victoria.

“I’m going to go now. I’ll see you at work tomorrow,” Victoria said, grabbing her purse and leaving Aubrina’s apartment.

Aubrina took a deep breath as she put down her phone.

“I guess I’ll be shelling out a $200 pet deposit. Small price to pay,” she said.

Two

The next day at Francisco’s Cafe, Aubrina waited for Catherine to arrive. A mix of frustration and guilt gnawing at her. She knew Catherine and Victoria were probably upset with her for her outburst the day before, but she was tired of their constant attempts to find her a husband. The contest idea was the final straw. This was her life, and she would make her own decisions.

As the clock ticked past noon, Aubrina's patience began to wear thin. Catherine was late. With a sigh, she pulled out her phone and called. It went straight to voicemail.

"Cathy, you're late," Aubrina said into the phone, her voice firm but tinged with a hint of sadness. "We were supposed to meet at twelve. I have to be back at work by 12:45. If you're mad at me, I apologize for what I said. I just want you to know that I love you, no matter what."

She hung up, leaving the line open and the unspoken tension hanging heavy in the air. With a heavy heart, Aubrina got up from the table and made her way back to work.

At Denholm Shipping, where Aubrina worked as a Customer Service Rep, she settled back into her workspace. She grabbed a quick sandwich and a bottled water from the local deli before returning to her desk. As she prepared to place her headphones on her head, Pamelina, one of the supervisors, walked over to Aubrina.

“Yes, Pam?” said Aubrina.

“What happened between you and Victoria? She’s been crying all day,” Pamelina said.

Aubrina sighed and explained the situation.

Pamelina shook her head. “Oh my God, seriously?” she said.

“I’m afraid so. My sister is also mad at me. She didn’t show up for lunch. So, looks like I’ll no longer be welcomed to her house and I’ve lost my best friend” Aubrina said sadly.

Pamelina just shook her head.

“Sounds like to me that your sister and Vicki meant well, but they also failed to see that they were overstepping. Neither one has realize that yet” she said.

Aubrina shrugged her shoulders.

“Well, I’ll be getting a dog. Putting in more volunteer time at the animal shelter. Taking a floral design class and make some new friends at the Nursing Home on Sundays. At least, I’ll be busy”

she said.

“They will come around” said Pamelina and she walked away.

Aubrina nodded and went straight to work.

Aubrina arrived home later that day, a warm glow of contentment filling her heart. She carried Barney, the beagle she had just adopted, into her apartment.

“Welcome home, Barney,” she said, placing him on the floor.

The sweet animal sniffed excitedly around the apartment as Aubrina finished setting up his bed. She had ensured everything was safe and ready for her new canine companion, just as she had always planned. Tucking the dog food away, she was about to settle in when a knock at the door startled her.

“Who is it?” she asked, her voice filled with curiosity.

“It's Dan,” a familiar voice replied.

Aubrina smiled and opened the door.

“Hello, Dan,” she said, her eyes lighting up.

Dan, a man of average build and physique, possessed a captivating presence. His deep bronze skin complemented his warm brown eyes. Long, black hair, meticulously braided, framed his face, adding a touch of both ruggedness and sophistication.

“Hey, Aub, I have a favor to ask of you,” Dan said.

“What is it?” she asked.

“My grandmother is coming into town and, well…” he started to say.

“Let me guess, she’s been trying to set you up with a ‘nice’ girl,” Aubrina interjected.

Dan nodded, a look of exasperation crossing his face. “Yes, but all the 'nice' girls she's introduced me to have been anything but nice,” he said, his voice filled with frustration.

“What do you need?” Aubrina asked, her curiosity piqued.

“Fake being my girlfriend for the weekend,” Dan replied, his eyes fixed on her. “If you do this, I'll be forever grateful. I'll even owe you a favor.”

Aubrina raised an eyebrow, considering his request. “Are you sure about that?” she asked, a playful tone in her voice.

Dan hesitated for a moment, then nodded. “Okay, one favor within reason,” he said.

Aubrina laughed. “Alright, you got it,” she replied, her eyes sparkling with amusement.

“Thanks, Aub,” Dan said, his face breaking into a relieved smile. He noticed Barney, who was watching them curiously.

“Cute dog,” Dan said, reaching out to pet him.

Aubrina turned and saw Barney looking at her and Dan. She smiled and picked him up.

“This is Barney,” she said, introducing her new companion. "I adopted him today. He's my roommate."

Dan smiled and petted Barney. "Hey dude, how are you? Welcome to the Neighborly Heights Apartment Homes," he said, his voice filled with warmth.

Barney barked happily, wagging his tail. Both Aubrina and Dan laughed.

“He's cute,” Dan said, his eyes filled with admiration.

“That he is,” Aubrina replied, nuzzling her nose against Barney's. Dan watched them with a fond smile.

“You two are so cute,” he said.

"Thanks, Dan," Aubrina replied. "When is your grandmother coming to town?"

“Saturday,” Dan answered. “I'm expected for a family dinner. I didn't tell my family that I have a girlfriend, so it's going to be a surprise.”

Aubrina nodded in understanding. “Don't worry,” she said, reassuringly. “Just tell them that you and I wanted to see how well things went before doing family introductions.”

Dan smiled, relieved. "I like that," he said.

“Okay,” Aubrina said. “Family dinner is at 7 PM. Be ready by 6 PM.”

Dan nodded. “No problem,” he replied.

“Alright then and thanks Aub. I meant what I said...any favor within reason” said Dan.

“Okay” she said with a smile.

“See you Saturday at 6pm and it’s dressy casual” said Dan.

“No problem” said Aubrina.

“Thanks again” said Dan.

“You’re welcome” said Aubrina and Dan soon walked away as Aubrina closed the door. Barney soon barked.

“Oh, you like Dan huh? Well, he is a nice guy” said Aubrina as put Barney down.

“Alright, buddy….how about some Television and then dinner” she said to Barney.

Barney barked and Aubrina took it as a yes.

It is Saturday afternoon and the sun dappled through the leaves as Aubrina and Barney strolled through the park. A gentle breeze carried the sweet scent of blooming flowers, creating a peaceful atmosphere. As they turned a corner, Aubrina spotted her sister, Catherine, her husband, Jason, and their two sons, Nick and Wesley.

“Auntie Brina!” Nick exclaimed as he ran over to Aubrina.

“Nicky!” Aubrina said, squatting down to hug Nick.

Nick had dark red-brown hair, blue eyes, and a complexion similar to Catherine’s and hers. After all, Catherine and Aubrina looked alike, except Catherine’s hair was long. The red-brown hair and blue eyes came from Jason, who was fair-skinned, tall, and slightly muscular.

“You got a dog?” Nick asked, his eyes wide with excitement.

“Yes, his name is Barney,” Aubrina replied, smiling.

Jason looked at Catherine, who was still holding a grudge.“Cathy, you can’t still be mad at her. I told you a long time ago to stop playing matchmaker for her. So, I don’t blame her for what she said,” Jason said.

“She didn't have to be so rude about it,” Catherine pouted.

"You're acting like a child," Jason scolded. "Get over it.”

“How would you feel if your brother said something like that to you?” Catherine asked, her voice trembling.

“I'd get over it,” Jason replied firmly. “And I wouldn't be playing matchmaker for my siblings. They're adults with their own lives.”

Catherine sighed, realizing that Jason was right. “Alright, I'll apologize,” she said.

“Good, because the boys love her dog,” Jason said, pointing at Barney.

Wesley had joined Aubrina and Nick. Both boys were playing with Barney and laughing.

Catherine smiled as she walked over. “Hey, Sis,” she said.

“Hey, sis,” Aubrina replied, standing up.

Jason joined them. “Hey you two, let's get some ice cream,” he said to Wesley and Nick.

“Cool!” the boys exclaimed in unison, and they raced off towards the ice cream truck, Jason following close behind.

“Brina, I'm sorry for being so pushy about setting you up with someone,” Catherine said, her voice filled with sincerity.

“It's okay, I forgive you,” Aubrina replied. “I'm sorry for being so rude. I just had enough.”

“Jason helped me realize that,” Catherine said. “I guess because I'm so happy in my marriage, I wanted you to find the same happiness.”

Aubrina smiled. “Have faith, sis. God will bring that special man to me,” she said.

Tears welled up in Catherine's eyes as she hugged Aubrina.

“So, girl or boy?” she asked, pointing at Barney.

“Boy,” Aubrina replied. “His name is Barney.”

Catherine smiled. "He's cute," she said.

“Thank you,” Aubrina replied. “I know Mom wouldn't be thrilled about a dog.”

Catherine smirked, remembering their mother's disapproval. “Dear God, help me,” she said. “I just realized I've been acting like Mom, constantly trying to play matchmaker.”

Aubrina laughed. "Don't feel bad. I've noticed I act like Mom too, especially at work, always telling people to sit up straight and not swear."

Catherine palmed her face, joining in the laughter. "Oh God, please forgive me for my behavior," she said.

Aubrina smiled. "I feel like God has forgiven you, as have I," she replied.

"Would you like to get some ice cream?" Catherine asked.

"Sure thing," Aubrina said. "Come on, Barney," she said, gently tugging on the leash. Barney barked playfully and followed them.

At 5:30 p.m. that evening, Aubrina was ready. She wore a chic black knee-length skirt paired with a light blue button-down blouse, completing the look with comfortable black flats. Her makeup was simple yet elegant – a touch of eyeliner, foundation to even her skin tone, and a hint of color with tinted lip gloss. A final glance in the mirror confirmed her satisfaction. Smiling, she placed her gold cross around her neck, a silent symbol of her faith and a reminder of her inner strength.

“Dear God, please let this evening go well. May Dan and I arrive safely and may the meeting with his grandmother and family be a positive experience. Even though we're just pretending to be a couple to appease his Nana, I hope everything goes smoothly. Amen,” she prayed.

A gentle knock sounded at the door, followed by Barney's enthusiastic barking. Aubrina left her room and approached the door. Peering through the peephole, she saw Dan standing there. With a smile, she opened the door.

“Hey, Dan,” she said.

“Hey, Aub… you look great,” Dan said, giving her an appreciative once-over.

“Thank you, you’re looking good yourself,” she replied with a smile.

Dan stood ready, a vision in a sharp black blazer. His lavender button-down shirt, a unique yet stylish choice, complemented his dark slacks and brown loafers. His neatly braided hair framed his face, adding a touch of personality to his overall polished look. The combination of his attire and confident demeanor made him look both sophisticated and approachable.

“Are you ready to go?” Dan asked.

“Yes, I am. Just let me get my purse,” she said, inviting him in.

“Alright,” Dan replied.

Dan walked into Aubrina’s apartment and saw Barney looking at him. “Hey, Barney,” Dan said with a smile.

Barney barked a friendly hello, wagging his tail enthusiastically.

Dan chuckled as Aubrina emerged from her bedroom, purse and jacket in hand. “Let’s go,” she said.

“Alright,” Dan echoed.

“Barney, behave yourself. I’ll be back soon,” Aubrina said, giving the beagle a gentle pat.

Barney barked as if to say, “Yes, I will.” Dan and Aubrina shared a laugh before heading out the door.

As they walked to Dan’s car, the evening air was cool and refreshing. The sun was beginning to set, casting a warm glow over the neighborhood. Aubrina felt a mix of excitement and nervousness about the evening ahead.

“Thanks again for doing this, Aub,” Dan said as he opened the car door for her.

“No problem, Dan. It’ll be fun,” she replied, sliding into the passenger seat.

Dan got in and started the car. “I really appreciate it. My Nana can be a bit much, but she means well.”

“I understand. Family can be like that sometimes,” Aubrina said with a knowing smile.

As they drove off, the conversation flowed easily between them, easing any lingering nerves. They both hoped the evening would go smoothly and that their little charade would be convincing enough to keep Dan’s grandmother happy.

Dan and Aubrina pulled up to his parents’ home, a welcoming beige brick house with a neatly paved driveway. The front yard was meticulously maintained, with vibrant flowers lining the walkway and a large oak tree providing shade. Stepping out of the car, they walked towards the front door. Dan took a deep breath, a subtle tremor in his hands betraying the nervous anticipation bubbling beneath his calm exterior. Aubrina noticed and gave his hand a reassuring squeeze.

“You’ve got this,” she whispered, her voice a soothing balm, accompanied by a supportive smile that lit up her face.

“Thanks,” he replied, his voice tinged with a mix of nerves and excitement. “Are you ready for this?” he asked, searching her eyes for reassurance.

“Yeah,” she said, her tone steady and confident.

Dan took a deep breath and rang the doorbell. The chime echoed through the house, and moments later, an older woman peered out the window, her expression a curious blend of surprise and suspicion. The door creaked open.

“Hey, Mom,” Dan greeted her with a warm smile.

“Hello, Dan,” his mother responded, her eyes shifting to the young woman beside him. “And who might this be?”

“This is my girlfriend, Aubrina,” Dan introduced, gently taking Aubrina’s hand and pulling her close. She didn’t protest, instead, she smiled warmly at his mother.

“It’s a pleasure to meet you, Mrs. Bennett,” Aubrina said, her voice polite and sincere.

Mrs. Bennett raised an eyebrow, her gaze flicking back to Dan. “You want to explain why you haven’t told us about her before?”

Dan cleared his throat, squeezing Aubrina’s hand for support. “Aubrina and I decided it would be best to see how things progressed before introducing our families to one another,” he explained, hoping his mother would understand.

His mother crossed her arms, her expression a mix of skepticism and curiosity. Moments later, his father appeared at the door.

“Makes perfect sense to me,” his father said with a reassuring nod.

Dan was the spitting image of his father, except for the gray, short hair that marked his father’s age. His mother, a lovely woman with a light bronze complexion, brown eyes, and black hair styled in a pixie cut with streaks of gray, gave Dan a skeptical look.

“Look, don’t mind your mother. Come on in, both of you,” his father said, stepping aside to let them enter.

“Thanks, Dad,” Dan replied, leading Aubrina inside.

“As I said to Mrs. Bennett, it is a pleasure to meet you, Mr. Bennett,” Aubrina said politely.

“Call me James,” he responded with a warm smile.

Aubrina smiled back. “Thank you, but I feel more comfortable calling you Mr. Bennett. It’s how I was raised—to address a friend or a boyfriend’s parents formally when meeting them for the first time,” she explained.

James’s smile widened. “Dan, you should take her to meet your other grandmother. She would love her,” he said, his eyes twinkling with approval.

Dan laughed, and Aubrina smiled, feeling more at ease. “Maybe after tonight,” he said.

Soon, Dan’s maternal grandmother walked into the living room. She was an older version of Mrs. Bennett, with the same skeptical look in her eyes.

“Who is this, Dan?” she asked, her voice carrying the weight of years of wisdom and experience.

“Nana Sarah, this is my girlfriend, Aubrina,” Dan said, wrapping his arm around Aubrina’s waist. Aubrina didn’t protest; if anything, she smiled warmly.

Nana Sarah looked at Dan and Aubrina, then turned her gaze to her daughter. “Caroline, did you know about her?” she asked.

“We’re all just finding out about her now,” Caroline replied, closing the front door with a soft click.

Soon, Dan’s younger sister, Tracey, walked into the living room. Tracey looked like a younger version of Caroline, but with long, flowing hair.

“I agree with Dad. Waiting a while before meeting the family is always a good thing. Gary and I did that,” Tracey said, nodding in agreement.

Nana Sarah turned to Tracey, her eyes narrowing slightly. “I still don’t like that you and he just snuck around,” she said, her tone disapproving.

“We didn’t sneak around. People knew… people like Dad, Dan, and Nana Ruby,” Tracey replied, her voice steady.

“Yet you didn’t tell me,” Caroline said, pouting slightly.

“That’s because you were hung up on Noel,” Tracey said, her voice softening.

“That’s because you and Noel had been together since you were both sixteen,” Caroline retorted.

“Yes, Mom, and then he went off to college, met another girl, and dumped me,” Tracey said, her voice tinged with old hurt.

“Yes, but he also came back to you when that other girl dumped him,” Caroline pointed out.

“Mom, she didn’t dump him. He dumped her because she was going to be in the UK for six months for a medical internship. The minute she returned, he dumped me again and went back to her. He just didn’t want to be alone for six months,” Tracey explained, her frustration evident.

James snorted. “Honestly, I’ve always felt that Tracey deserved better. Noel was a whiny mama’s boy who wanted to be taken care of. Tracey is smart and strong; she didn’t need to be with that wuss. She needed someone who is like her and shares her faith. Gary turned out to be that man,” he said firmly.

At that moment, Gary walked out of the kitchen, a smile spreading across his face. “Thanks, Dad!” he said, his voice filled with gratitude.

Gary was a tall man with brown eyes and a clean-shaven head. His complexion was similar to Tracey’s, and he had a solid, muscular physique from working out. Caroline and Nana Sarah just huffed in response.

“Tracey and Gary, this is Aubrina,” Dan said, introducing his girlfriend.

“It is so good to meet you,” Tracey said warmly.

“It is a pleasure to meet both of you as well,” Aubrina replied, her smile genuine.

“Are you spiritual, Aubrina? I notice a cross around your neck,” Gary asked, his curiosity piqued.

“Yes, I go to church, pray, and even do a morning devotion every day,” she said.

James smiled broadly. “My prayers have been answered!” he exclaimed loudly.

A puzzled look crossed Aubrina’s face as she held back a laugh. Dan leaned in and whispered, “I forgot to mention, my father is an associate pastor at the church that my family and I attend,” he said, trying not to laugh.

Aubrina smiled. “No problem. Honestly, I got a good feeling about your dad the moment I met him. Same thing with you, your sister, mom, and grandmother,” she said.

Dan smiled. “You caught me,” he said.

“What is it?” she asked.

“I’m actually a minister in training. Yeah, it’s my calling,” Dan said with a smile.

Aubrina’s smile widened. “I think that’s great. My uncle is a Deacon at the church that my family and I attend,” she said.

Dan and Aubrina continued to smile at each other, a shared understanding passing between them.

James was also smiling. “Come on, Gary and Tracey have made a great dinner,” he said.

“Yeah, let’s eat!” Gary added enthusiastically.

They all moved into the dining room, Dan and Aubrina holding hands as they entered.

After dinner, Dan and Aubrina sat outside on the back porch swing, the gentle creaking of the swing mingling with the distant sounds of his mother and grandmother ranting up a storm inside the house.

“I take it that your mother and grandmother had other ideas about whom they wanted you to date?” Aubrina asked with a slight smile, her eyes twinkling with curiosity.

Dan chuckled, shaking his head. “With all due respect to my mother and Nana Sarah, they both seem to have this idea of what kind of woman would be perfect for me. Yet, the women they set me up with have never shared my faith or interests, and that’s what I want,” he said, his voice filled with conviction.

Aubrina smiled, nodding in understanding. “Same here… My younger sister along with my co-worker, and likely former best friend have been doing the same thing. For a while, my sister was mad at me because I told her and my co-worker that I would be getting a dog, volunteering more time at the animal shelter, enrolling in a floral design class at the local community college, and taking Sunday trips to the local nursing home to spend time with the residents,” she said, her voice softening as she shared her story.

Dan laughed, a warm, hearty sound. “You have the dog. Ironically enough, I love dogs too,” he said.

“Well, that probably explains why Barney likes you,” Aubrina said with a grin.

“As for the nursing home, every Saturday, my father, my Aunt Estelle, and I go to the Serene Haven Nursing Home to sing songs and minister to the residents,” Dan said, his eyes lighting up with enthusiasm.

Aubrina’s eyes lit up as well. “I would love to do that,” she said, her excitement palpable.

Dan smiled warmly. “Well, you are welcome to join us,” he said.

As Dan and Aubrina talked, they discovered they had a lot in common, especially their faith in God.

“I would love to visit your church on Sunday,” Aubrina said.

“You are welcome to visit. Peaceful Heart Church welcomes all, and we mean that. Lots of people are always visiting,” Dan said.

“I’ll be there tomorrow. What time does the service start?” she asked.

“Service is at 9 a.m., but how about we go together?” Dan suggested.

“I would love that,” Aubrina replied, her smile widening.

Inside the house, Caroline was still pouting while James sat in his recliner, enjoying his after-dinner tea.

“Mama is not happy,” Caroline said, her voice tinged with frustration.

“And she will get over it. Besides, Dan and Aubrina are quite happy from the way they kept looking at each other,” James said, his tone calm and reassuring.

Caroline sighed. “Yes, they are. It’s just that Mama had him all set up with someone,” she said.

James raised an eyebrow. “Sweetheart, considering the kind of women your mother has introduced Dan to in the past, I am grateful to God that he brought Dan and Aubrina together,” he said.

Caroline nodded at those words, unable to argue with that logic. “I’ll be honest with you, darling. I, too, was getting exhausted with Mama playing matchmaker for Dan. Also, you are right about Noel. I just didn’t want to let go of how cute Tracey and Noel were. He promised that he would marry Tracey one day,” she said, her voice softening with nostalgia.

James snorted. “Babe, he only told you that because he wanted to stay in your good graces. I knew the moment he went off to college that he would find someone else who could potentially take care of him and dump Tracey,” he said, his voice firm.

Caroline cringed. “He was such a sweet boy,” she said, her voice tinged with regret.

“Sweet boy, my left foot,” James retorted, shaking his head.

Meanwhile, Gary and Tracey joined Dan and Aubrina on the back porch, handing them each a cup of decaf coffee.

“Is Mom still upset?” Dan asked, taking a cautious sip.

“No, she actually got over it. Gary and I overheard her and Dad talking. She’s fine now. As for Nana Sarah… Yep! She’s still upset,” Tracey said with a shrug.

Dan shrugged his shoulders as he drank his coffee, and Aubrina took a sip of hers, savoring the warmth.

“So, Aubrina… can I call you sister-in-law?” Tracey asked, a mischievous glint in her eye.

Dan choked on his coffee, causing Aubrina and Gary to burst into laughter.

“Really, Lacey?” Dan said, using his sister’s nickname.

“What? With the way you two were acting at dinner, you might as well be married,” Tracey said with a teasing smile.

Aubrina giggled, and Dan gave Tracey a playful glare. “Only time will tell,” she said, sipping her coffee while still snickering.

“Face it, Danny Boy! We all noticed how you and Aubrina were acting. You might as well go out and find the perfect engagement ring. Scratch that… the wedding rings,” Gary said, grinning.

Dan just stared at Tracey and Gary as if they had lost their minds, while Aubrina laughed.

“As I said… only time will tell,” Aubrina repeated, her eyes twinkling.

“Seems like it’s telling right now, sis-in-law,” Tracey said with a smile.

Dan and Aubrina looked at each other and smiled, a silent understanding passing between them.

Back at Neighborly Heights Apartment Homes, Dan and Aubrina stopped at Aubrina’s door.

“I had a good time. Your sister and brother-in-law are cool,” she said.

Dan smiled. “Yeah, Tracey and I have always been tight. She’s only a year younger than me,” he said.

“Something else we have in common. My sister, Catherine, and I are a year apart too,” Aubrina said.

“Awesome,” Dan replied, his smile widening.

They continued to look at each other, the night air filled with unspoken words.

“Dan, would you like to meet my family?” she asked, her voice soft.

“Are you calling in the favor?” he asked, raising an eyebrow.

“No, but we can consider it me calling in the favor,” she said with a smile.

Dan continued to smile. “I would love to. How about tomorrow, after church?” he suggested.

“Perfect!” she said, her eyes lighting up.

“Alright then, see you tomorrow at 8 a.m.,” Dan said.

“I’ll be up at 7 a.m.,” Aubrina replied.

“Well then, how about breakfast at Lonnie’s?” Dan suggested.

“You bet!” Aubrina said enthusiastically.

Aubrina unlocked the door to her apartment and found Barney waiting for her. He barked at both Aubrina and Dan, making them laugh.

“He is so cute. How about next Saturday, after we visit Serene Haven Nursing Home, you and I take Barney for a walk?” Dan suggested.

Barney barked, and Aubrina laughed. “He says you bet, and so do I,” she said.

“Alright then. Night, Aub. Night, Barney,” Dan said.

“Night, Dan,” Aubrina replied, and Barney barked at Dan as he walked away.

Aubrina smiled at Barney as she picked him up. “I think I might be falling in love, Barney,” she said, and Barney barked in agreement.

Three

Sunday morning at Peaceful Heart Church, the sanctuary was packed. Dan wasn’t kidding when he said the church always had visitors. Aubrina, along with Tracey and Gary, sat together in one pew. Caroline and her mother, Sarah, were seated up front, as was James’ mother, Ruby. Nana Ruby kept turning around and smiling warmly at Aubrina.

“I think your Nana Ruby is thinking the same thing as you, Tracey,” Aubrina said, glancing over the church bulletin.

Tracey giggled. “Well, from the moment you and Dan walked in, you looked like a married couple. Also, Nana Ruby is an ordained minister herself. Fair warning, she will insist on performing the wedding,” she said with a playful wink.

Aubrina looked at Tracey, her eyebrows raised. “But there is no wedding,” she said.

“Not yet,” Tracey replied, and Gary snickered beside her.

Aubrina just shook her head, then looked up at Dan, who was sitting in the pulpit with the rest of the pastors and ministers. She smiled at him, and he smiled back, a silent connection passing between them.

“Maybe there is something,” she said softly, a blush creeping up her cheeks.

The service began, and the choir’s harmonious voices filled the sanctuary, creating a serene and uplifting atmosphere. As the sermon progressed, Aubrina found herself deeply moved by the message of love and community. She glanced around, feeling a sense of belonging among the congregation.

After the service, the congregation mingled in the fellowship hall. Nana Ruby made her way over to Aubrina, her eyes twinkling with mischief.

“Aubrina, dear, it’s so lovely to finally meet you. Dan has spoken so highly of you,” Nana Ruby said, giving her a warm hug.

“It’s wonderful to meet you too, Nana Ruby,” Aubrina replied, feeling genuinely welcomed.

“So, am I going to get to perform the wedding?” Nana Ruby asked, her eyes twinkling with mischief.

Dan palmed his face as Aubrina blushed. “Nana Ruby, seriously?” Dan said, his voice filled with exasperation.

“Yes, I am serious. Your father told me about what happened last night, and I am seeing it before my eyes right here,” Ruby replied, her tone firm but playful.

Dan blushed even more as he pulled Aubrina close. “Nana, please,” he murmured.

Just then, Raymond, a frequent visitor to the church who somehow felt that he and Dan were friends, approached them. “Dan, my man! We need to talk,” Raymond said, his tone overly familiar.

Raymond was taller than Dan, with dark brown hair, gray eyes, and a medium fair complexion.

“Excuse me for a moment,” Dan said to Aubrina.

“Okay,” Aubrina replied, watching as Dan walked away. She noticed Raymond wink at her and smile, causing her to cringe as her stomach turned. She looked at Ruby for reassurance.

“Don’t worry, you are not the only woman in this church who is repulsed by him,” Ruby said, her voice low.

“What do you want, Raymond?” Dan asked, his patience wearing thin.

“Look, David, Glen, and I are wondering… One: Why are you with that prude? And Two: What happened to Ariel?” Raymond asked, his tone dripping with disdain.

Dan glanced over at Raymond’s friends, David and Glen. Both men were tall like Raymond. Glen had dark skin like Dan and dark hair, while David had a fair complexion with dark blonde hair and green eyes.

“First of all, Ariel was only interested in one thing, and I am not looking for a strictly sexual relationship. Secondly, that’s Aubrina, and she’s my girlfriend,” Dan said firmly.

“Dan… dude. I get the whole act. You’re a minister in training… you have to put on this appearance of chastity and virtue. But seriously… you’re a man… you have needs. Be a man!” Raymond said, his voice rising.

Dan gave Raymond a disdainful look. “Let’s get one thing straight right now. You and I are not friends. We have never been friends and will never be friends. Secondly, my calling is no act. It’s what I have been called to do, and I am going to do it. I don’t care if you don’t believe me. Aside from my family, the only other opinion that matters to me is God’s, and you are not God,” Dan said, his voice steady and unwavering.

Raymond raised an eyebrow. “You better get off that high horse before you get knocked from it,” he said in a threatening manner.

“If my faith in God and His calling me to the ministry offends you, then why are you standing here talking to me?” Dan said loudly, drawing the attention of those nearby.

Glen made his way over to Raymond, sensing the tension. “Raymond, let it go. People are looking,” Glen said, trying to diffuse the situation.

“I don’t believe this!” Raymond exclaimed, storming off in a huff.

Glen looked at Dan, his eyes narrowing with a mix of frustration and caution.

“Before you speak, you and David better remember that your uncle is one of the associate pastors. His sister is the director of music and head of the Women’s Ministry. Both of them have warned you and David about Raymond. If you have any smarts, you better back away from me and say nothing,” Dan said, his voice steady but firm.

Glen clenched his jaw, but the weight of Dan’s words sank in. He turned on his heel and walked away, leaving Dan to take a deep breath. Aubrina, noticing the tension, approached him with concern etched on her face.

“Is everything okay?” she asked softly.

“Yeah, just a jerk who only visits because he thinks the idea of faith is a joke and that the church is a huge money maker,” Dan replied, shaking his head.

Aubrina sighed, her expression sympathetic. “I know the type. My mother is married to such a man… my stepfather.”

Dan frowned. “He’s not going to give us trouble, is he?”

“Not unless he wants my uncle to lay him out. Neither he nor my brother-in-law like him,” Aubrina reassured him.

As they spoke, Nana Sarah approached with a striking woman by her side. The woman had long, wavy hair, a deep tan complexion, and piercing green-gray eyes.

“Dan, this is Monica. She is the woman I wanted to introduce you to. She’s an international businesswoman,” Nana Sarah said with a proud smile.

Dan glanced at Monica, who was giving him a disinterested once-over. “Nana Sarah, she’s not interested in me,” he said flatly.

“Yes, she is,” Nana Sarah insisted.

“Actually, no, I am not,” Monica interjected, her tone dripping with disdain. “Honestly, I only came here to Peaceful Heart to shut my mother up since she’s been on my case to get back to church. Also to meet your grandson, since you and my mother are friends. I am already engaged, in fact… I am leaving tomorrow for Johannesburg, South Africa, to get married.”

Nana Sarah was taken aback by Monica’s tone. “Girl, you need to watch your tone,” she said sternly.

Monica raised an eyebrow. “Ms. Palmer, I am not your daughter or your granddaughter. Also, I will not allow you to speak to me as if you have authority over me, for which you do not have. As I told my mother, I have a life of my own and I will live it how I see fit. As long as I do not harm myself or anyone else and I am happy, my life is my own,” she said, turning on her heel and walking away.

“She’s right, Nana Sarah. It is her life, and secondly, since we are talking about authority, the only person who has true authority over any of us is God,” Dan said gently.

Nana Sarah looked at Dan, her expression softening slightly. “True, but it does not hurt to give God some help with those who are lost and need to be led back,” she said.

“Nana Sarah, I am not lost. I am on the path that God has put me on. The issue here is that you want to have a personal say in who shares in that path so that you can have a reason to boast to others. The path that God has put me on is not about you. It is about me doing what He has called me to do, and I willingly do so because I have realized that it is what I want also,” Dan explained.

“And what about what I want?” Nana Sarah asked, her voice tinged with selfishness.

James, who had been listening nearby, walked over and stood in front of his mother-in-law. “I just heard Dan say that the path that God has put him on is not about you,” he said firmly.

“I am not going to apologize for wanting my grandson to be successful,” Nana Sarah retorted.

“God wants that for Dan also. But again, whatever success he achieves with the help of God has nothing to do with you, nor is it about you,” James said.

Nana Sarah pouted and then stormed off. “None of you are listening to me!” she shouted.

Dan shook his head. “Nana Sarah, we are listening. It is you who isn’t listening to what is being told to you,” he called after her.

Nana Sarah said nothing as she stormed towards James and Caroline’s car. She stood there, pouting like a child with her arms crossed. Caroline shook her head as she walked over to James, Dan, and Aubrina.

“I’m sorry for my mother’s behavior, Aubrina,” said Caroline.

“It’s okay. My mother sometimes behaves like that, so I get it,” Aubrina replied with a reassuring smile.

Caroline smiled back. “Consider yourself family, Aubrina.”

“Thank you,” Aubrina said, her smile widening.

As they left the church, Dan and Aubrina walked hand in hand, feeling closer than ever. The future seemed bright, filled with possibilities and the promise of new beginnings.

It was now 3 PM, and Aubrina and Dan were on their way to the home of Jacob Duncan, Aubrina’s maternal uncle. They pulled up to a ranch-style house painted a vibrant red, standing out boldly from the rest of the neighborhood. Dan’s eyes widened in surprise as he took in the sight.

“Uh, Aub, did your uncle buy the house like that?” Dan asked as they got out of the car.

Aubrina snickered. “Nope! He and Aunt Sola painted it that color. They love bright colors,” she said with a smile.

“I’ll say,” Dan replied, still staring at the brightness of the red.

The front door opened, and out walked a woman with a deep bronze complexion. Her long, wavy black hair had streaks of gray, and her warm, brown eyes radiated friendliness. She was pleasantly plump and wore an ankle-length dress in a bright shade of orange that complemented her complexion beautifully.

“Aubrina, anjo brilhante,” she greeted.

“Olá, tia Sola,” Aubrina responded, hugging her.

“Tia Sola, this is Dan, my boyfriend. Dan, this is my aunt, Sola Duncan,” Aubrina introduced.

“A pleasure to meet you,” Dan said, extending his hand.

“A pleasure to meet you also,” Sola replied, shaking his hand warmly.

“Ele é lindo, Anjo Brilhante,” Sola whispered to Aubrina.

Aubrina giggled. “Eu sei,” she said.

Dan raised an eyebrow in curiosity.

“Sorry, Dan. Aunt Sola is from Brazil. She taught me Portuguese when I was a teenager, and we speak it fluently together. It drives my mother and stepfather up the wall,” Aubrina explained.

“Does your uncle speak Portuguese?” Dan asked.

“Yes, he does. He lived in Brazil for a time as a missionary. That’s how he and Aunt Sola met,” Aubrina said.

“That’s awesome,” Dan said with a smile.

Soon, an older gentleman stepped outside. He bore a striking resemblance to Aubrina, though his hair was completely white and his eyes a piercing gray.

“Hey, Uncle Jacob,” Aubrina greeted.

“Hello, Bright Angel,” Jacob replied.

“Bright Angel?” Dan echoed.

“My nickname,” Aubrina said with a smile.

“I like it. Nana Ruby calls me Malaika. It’s Swahili for angel. She visited Tanzania in her twenties as a missionary,” Dan shared.

“Does she still speak it?” Jacob asked.

“Yes, she does. Her first husband was from Tanzania, but he passed away three years after they married. Then she met my grandfather, and they had my father and Aunt Estelle. She taught them Swahili, but only Aunt Estelle speaks it fluently. My dad occasionally speaks it,” Dan explained.

Jacob smiled. “Aubrina, why are we just now meeting Dan?” he asked.

Aubrina and Dan laughed.

“We wanted to see how things progressed before introducing each other to our families. I’ve already met Dan’s family, and his sister is calling me ‘sis-in-law,’” Aubrina said.

“Well, consider yourself a part of this family, Dan,” Jacob said with a warm smile.

“Thank you, Mr. Duncan,” said Dan, his voice filled with gratitude.

“Oh, don’t call me that… Uncle Jacob or Jake will do fine,” Jacob replied with a warm smile.

Dan chuckled and glanced at Aubrina. “I know, I know… next time we visit, I’ll call your dad by his name. Unless he wants me to call him Dad,” Aubrina said playfully.

“Either works for him,” Dan said with a smile, feeling more at ease.

Inside the house, the atmosphere was inviting and cozy. Warm shades of red, yellow, brown, and green adorned every corner, creating a vibrant and welcoming environment. The living room featured a plush sofa set in deep burgundy, while the dining room was a burst of sunshine with its brightly painted walls and colorful table and chairs. Dan marveled at the array of hues, thinking even Nana Ruby’s home, known for its love of color, paled in comparison.

As they settled in, Dan met the rest of Aubrina’s family. Her younger sister, Catherine, and her husband, Jason, greeted him with open arms. Her cousins, Inez, Sophia, and Jorge, each a unique blend of their parents, added to the lively mix. Aubrina’s mother, Denise, and her husband, Scott, completed the family circle. Denise, however, eyed Dan skeptically and soon pulled Aubrina aside.

“Where did you meet him?” Denise asked, her tone cautious.

“He and I live in the same apartment building,” Aubrina replied calmly.

“And what does he do for a living?” Denise continued, her eyes narrowing slightly.

“He’s an accountant and he’s also studying to be a minister. In fact, he’s a minister in training at his church,” Aubrina explained, her voice steady.

Denise glanced back at Dan, who was now engaged in a lively conversation with Jason and Jorge. “Aubrina, forgive me for saying this… but I don’t feel that he is right for you,” Denise said, her concern evident.

Aubrina sighed and looked at her mother. “Mom, don’t start,” she said, a hint of frustration in her voice.

“This is not about his ethnicity. This is about where your life is going and what it would be like if you married him,” Denise insisted.

Aubrina took a deep breath. “Mom, every couple has their obstacles. I’m well aware that Dan and I will have ours. Nevertheless, he and I have a lot in common. We both love dogs, our families are friendly with some exceptions. But best of all, he loves God and so do I,” she said firmly.

Denise rolled her eyes, her voice dripping with disdain. “I will never understand what loving God has to do with loving someone else. God can’t pay your bills, God cannot give you a nice expensive car and provide you with the things that you deserve,” she said, her tone sharp and dismissive.

Aubrina raised an eyebrow at her mother, her patience wearing thin. “First of all, I have a job that God helped me find. Therefore, my bills are being paid. Secondly, where in the world did you get the idea that I wanted an expensive car or anything else extravagant, like that Gucci purse you have? Mother, I am not you, and I don’t want to be you either. I am who God made me to be,” she said firmly, her voice steady and resolute.

Denise’s face twisted with irritation. “You sound like your father! So sanctimonious!” she spat.

“Dad was not sanctimonious. He judged no one, criticized no one… that was you. All Dad did was love everyone and help anyone he could. He loved his faith as much as he loved his family,” Aubrina retorted, her eyes flashing with a mix of sadness and determination.

Denise stormed off, unwilling to listen to any more of what Aubrina had to say. Catherine, sensing the tension, came over and hugged her sister.

“Mom go into her tirade about expensive cars and things that you deserve?” Catherine asked, her voice soft and understanding.

“Of course,” Aubrina sighed.

“Keep in mind, she did the same thing to me when she and that man she married met Jason. All she did was complain about him being a police officer. She expected me to marry a highly successful businessman. I ignored her and married Jason anyway,” Catherine said, a hint of defiance in her voice.

Suddenly, there was shouting coming from the back sitting room. Catherine and Aubrina exchanged worried glances and hurried towards the noise.

Dan and Jason were standing outside the sitting room, both silent and tense.

“What happened?” Catherine asked, her voice filled with concern.

“Long story short, your mother came into the sitting room and started criticizing me, Dan, and Aunt Sola. She was going on about how people in her life just settle for what she considers mediocre crap and never try to achieve the finer things in life,” Jason explained, his frustration evident.

Aubrina and Catherine just shook their heads in disbelief.

“Your mother sounds like my Nana Sarah,” Dan said, trying to lighten the mood.

“I told you,” Aubrina replied, a small smile tugging at her lips.

“The only difference is that Mom complains about everything. Even when she’s given the finer things in life, she finds something to complain about,” Catherine added, her voice tinged with exasperation.

“No kidding! She managed to get the car she wanted… that Mercedes Benz Maybach, and she still complained about it,” Jason said, shaking his head.

Dan raised an eyebrow, his expression thoughtful. “Sounds to me that no matter what is done to appease her, no matter how nice something looks, she is never going to be happy or satisfied,” he said.

“Exactly!” Aubrina and Catherine said in unison, their voices filled with a mix of resignation and understanding.

Suddenly, the doors to the sitting room burst open. Denise stormed out, her heels clicking sharply against the wooden floor, with Scott trailing behind her, his expression a mix of resignation and concern. Without a word, they exited the house, the door slamming shut behind them.

Inside, Jason, Dan, Aubrina, and Catherine exchanged uneasy glances before stepping into the sitting room. The atmosphere was heavy with tension. Their Uncle Jacob sat with a stern expression, while Jorge and his sisters comforted their Aunt Sola, who was visibly upset.

“There’s a reason why your mother and I never got along,” Jacob said, breaking the silence.

“We know,” Aubrina and Catherine replied in unison, their voices tinged with a mix of frustration and understanding.

“Mulher ingrata, egoísta e imatura,” Sola muttered, shaking her head. “She will never be happy. No matter what is done for her, she will never be happy or grateful for anything.”

Aubrina took a deep breath, her eyes reflecting a determination that contrasted with the sadness in the room. “She wants us to want what she has always wanted. But Catherine and I are not like her. Yes, we have our own desires and dreams, and we believe we deserve more in life. But unlike our mother, we are willing to work for it, strive for it. And even if it is given to us, we will be appreciative because it is something we wanted and God gave it to us.”

Jacob nodded, a faint smile playing on his lips. “Exactly! That is what your father taught both of you. It’s why I loved your father and why, when he passed away, everyone was saddened. I don’t think your mother ever understood that. Then again, Denise is just like our father. Nothing was ever good enough for him. Our mother, on the other hand, always got the things she wanted, whether she earned them herself or God gave them to her because she was appreciative of how God was always there for her. That’s why she was always happy.”

Catherine sighed, her voice soft. “I don’t know if Mom will ever figure that out.”

“We can always pray that one day she will,” Aubrina said, her tone hopeful.

Dan nodded in agreement. “Pray for those who give you grief. Even if they never change, pray for them anyway.”

Jacob smiled warmly at Dan, then turned to Aubrina with a twinkle in his eye. “So, when is the wedding?”

Laughter erupted in the room, breaking the tension. Dan and Aubrina exchanged a look, their cheeks flushing slightly, but they couldn’t help but join in the laughter, feeling a sense of relief and unity amidst the family turmoil.

Back at Neighborly Heights Apartment Homes, Aubrina opened the door to her cozy apartment, and Barney, bounded towards them, barking excitedly. His tail wagged furiously as he greeted Aubrina and Dan, jumping around in circles. Dan and Aubrina exchanged amused glances as Dan bent down to scoop Barney into his arms, hugging him tightly.

“Hey there, Buddy,” Dan said, his voice warm and affectionate. Barney responded with a joyful bark and a flurry of wet kisses on Dan’s face.

Aubrina chuckled, her eyes sparkling with amusement. “He really likes you,” she observed.

Dan grinned, his eyes never leaving Barney’s. “He’s adorable. Would you mind if I ‘adopted’ him too?” he asked, his tone half-joking but hopeful.

Barney barked again, as if he understood the question and was giving his enthusiastic approval. Aubrina smiled, her heart warming at the sight of the two bonding.

“I don’t see why not,” she replied softly. Their eyes met, and in that moment, a silent understanding passed between them. Without another word, they leaned in and shared a tender kiss.

Barney’s bark interrupted their kiss, but they continued to gaze at each other, their smiles widening.

“I had a great time today,” Dan said, his voice filled with sincerity.

“Me too,” Aubrina agreed. “And I guess we should consider ourselves ‘parents’ of Barney now.”

Barney barked again, as if to seal the deal, and they both laughed.

“Yep,” Dan said, nodding. “I get home from work at 5:30 PM.”

“I’m usually home by 5 PM,” Aubrina added.

“How about we take turns making dinner at each other’s place?” Dan suggested, his eyes twinkling with excitement.

“You bet,” Aubrina replied, her smile growing.

They kissed again, a promise of many more shared moments to come. As they pulled apart, an idea struck Aubrina.

“I have an extra bed and food bowls for Barney if you want him to crash at your place sometimes,” she offered.

Barney barked in agreement, and Dan’s face lit up with a smile.

“You bet,” he said, his heart swelling with happiness.

For three weeks, Aubrina and Dan took turns making dinner at one another’s place, often ending the night with sleepovers. Barney was always part of their evenings, adding a sense of warmth and companionship.

On a crisp Saturday afternoon, the trio found themselves at the local park. The leaves had begun to turn, painting the landscape in shades of amber and crimson. As they strolled along the winding paths, Aubrina suddenly tensed.

“What’s wrong, babe?” Dan asked, noticing her change in demeanor.

“My former friend, Victoria,” she pointed out.

Victoria, spotting Aubrina with Dan, began to approach, curiosity evident in her stride.

“She’s coming this way,” Dan noted.

Soon, Victoria stood face to face with Aubrina, Dan by her side, and Barney sitting silently, observing the interaction.

“Hey Brina,” Victoria greeted, her tone a mix of surprise and familiarity.

“Hello Vicki,” Aubrina replied, her voice steady.

“It’s been a while,” Victoria remarked.

“Yes, it has. I heard that you got another job,” Aubrina responded.

“Yes, I’m working for Ironside Logistic now. Much better pay and benefits. The commute is long, but it’s worth it,” Victoria explained.

“Understandable,” Aubrina nodded.

Victoria’s gaze shifted to Dan. “Who is this?”

“This is Dan Bennett, my boyfriend. Dan, this is Victoria Thomas,” Aubrina introduced.

“Nice to meet you,” Dan said, extending a hand.

Victoria looked him up and down, a slight smile playing on her lips. Aubrina noticed and subtly shook her head. Dan, too, caught the hungry-eyed look Victoria gave him, a look he didn’t appreciate.

“How did you two meet?” Victoria asked, her curiosity piqued.

“We live in the same apartment building and share responsibility for Barney here,” Dan said, squatting down to pet Barney.

Victoria raised an eyebrow. “You actually got a dog?”

“Yes, his name is Barney, and he loves Dan just as much as I do,” Aubrina said, and Barney barked in agreement.

“You like dogs?” Victoria asked Dan.

“Yes, I do,” Dan replied.

“What do you do, Dan?” Victoria inquired.

“I’m an accountant and also a minister in training,” Dan answered.

Victoria’s eyes widened. “You’re studying to be a minister?”

“Yes, I am. Just this past Sunday, I delivered a sermon at my church. Aubrina was there,” Dan said, standing up.

Victoria looked at Aubrina. “It was a wonderful sermon. It was about accepting the changes that God wants to make in your life and letting go of things that hinder you from accepting that change,” Aubrina added.

Victoria crossed her arms, taking a deep breath. “So, are you taking floral design classes at the local community college?”

“I actually forgot about that. I’ve been so busy with work, Dan, Barney, and ministering to the residents at Serene Haven Nursing Home,” Aubrina admitted.

Victoria’s eyes widened again. “You are actually visiting old people?”

Dan raised an eyebrow. “It’s a ministry.”

“Whatever! Look, I’m glad you found someone. Maybe one day, we could catch up,” Victoria said, her tone dismissive.

“That would be fine. Why don’t you come to church tomorrow, my church…Valley of Faith?” Aubrina suggested.

“Hard pass! Me and church people don’t get along. I’m too blunt for them,” Victoria said with an attitude.

“Or maybe their love for God is too much for you,” Dan retorted.

Aubrina held back a snicker, and Barney, sensing the tension, let out a howl. Victoria, clearly not amused, walked away.

“Maybe I’m crazy, but I think Barney’s howl was his way of saying ‘ooh burn,’” Aubrina giggled.

Dan laughed. “You’re not crazy. I honestly feel that’s exactly what the howl was.”

They both laughed as Barney barked and hopped around, the autumn leaves swirling around them.

It was a serene night, the kind where the city lights twinkled like stars and the gentle hum of life outside was a comforting backdrop. Dan and Aubrina were nestled in the cozy warmth of Aubrina’s apartment, having just finished a delightful dinner. Now, they were cuddled up on the couch, the soft glow of the TV casting a gentle light across the room. Barney, their loyal and ever-energetic dog, sprawled contentedly across their laps, his presence a comforting weight.

“Aubrina, will you marry me?” Dan’s voice was soft but filled with earnestness.

Aubrina turned to him, her eyes sparkling with joy. “Yes, I will marry you,” she replied, her smile radiant. Barney, sensing the excitement, barked happily, his tail wagging furiously.

Dan’s face lit up with relief and happiness. “Look, my Aunt Estelle is leaving soon to travel around the world for a year with her new boyfriend. She’s looking for someone or a couple to rent her three-bedroom house. What do you say?”

Aubrina’s eyes widened with interest. “Does the backyard have space for Barney?”

“Plenty of space,” Dan assured her. “And she doesn’t mind animals as long as they are cleaned up after and any damage that is done is fixed.”

Aubrina chuckled. “Well, with Barney, the issue of him damaging anything won’t be a problem.”

Dan nodded in agreement. “I agree.”

Aubrina’s face softened with affection. “Then I guess we call Nana Ruby and ask if she would like to officiate our wedding.”

Dan laughed, the sound warm and infectious. “Yeah, and by the way, Nana Ruby owns a flower shop. She’s been looking for a new employee to train as her assistant. The job is full-time, and she’ll teach you how to make floral arrangements and designs if you like. She has a good eye for floral design.”

Aubrina’s eyes lit up with excitement. “Well, then when God brings forth the opportunity, take it!” she said, and Barney barked again, as if in agreement.

Dan and Aubrina shared a tender kiss, their hearts full of love and anticipation for the future. Barney, sensing the joyous moment, hopped out of their laps and began running around in circles, his excitement palpable. Dan and Aubrina laughed, the sound filling the room with warmth.

“Sometimes I think Barney is heaven sent,” Dan mused, watching their dog with a fond smile.

“Honestly, I think that he is,” Aubrina agreed, her eyes soft with affection as they both looked at Barney.

Barney, ever the center of attention, sat down and barked at them, his eyes bright and full of love.

Four

The wedding was a perfect balance—not too big, not too small. Dan and Aubrina opted for a simple yet elegant theme: Dressy Casual. Aubrina looked radiant in a light pink halter dress that gracefully fell to her knees, paired with white pumps. Dan complemented her beautifully in a dark gray blazer, white polo shirt, dark gray pants, and black loafers.

From Dan’s side, the guests included James and Caroline, Tracey and Gary, Estelle and her boyfriend Marcello, and a few members from Peaceful Heart. Aubrina’s side was represented by Jacob, Sola, and their children, along with Catherine, Jason, and their sons. Members of Valley of Faith were also present. Unfortunately, Nana Sarah, Denise, and Scott chose not to attend despite receiving invitations.

Nana Ruby, beaming with pride and joy, officiated the ceremony. After the vows and rings were exchanged, she declared, “By the power now vested in me by God, I happily pronounce you husband and wife. Kiss each other already!” Her playful command brought laughter from everyone as Dan and Aubrina shared their first kiss as a married couple.

The reception, held at the local park, was a lively affair. Guests danced, chatted, and enjoyed a delicious spread while showering the newlyweds with blessings. Amidst the celebration, a couple who were not on the guest list approached Dan and Aubrina.

“Hello there,” the woman greeted warmly.

“Hello,” Aubrina replied with a smile.

“I’m Minister Kanessa Krovorg, and this is my husband, Minister Gideon Krovorg. We were just passing through the park and saw the reception. I hope we’re not intruding,” Kanessa said.

“Oh, no… you are welcome,” Aubrina assured them.

“Yes, welcome,” Dan added.

“Congratulations to you both,” Gideon said sincerely.

“Thank you,” Dan responded. “It’s funny, Aubrina and I have always known each other since we lived in the same apartment building. It wasn’t until I needed a girlfriend to convince my maternal grandmother to stop playing matchmaker that I truly noticed Aubrina. I discovered we had so much in common.”

Gideon and Kanessa smiled knowingly.

“Let me guess, God said to both of you: ‘You found each other,’” Kanessa said with a smile.

“Oh yes!” Aubrina and Dan said in unison, laughing together.

“Trust me, Kanessa and I understand. We met at a Christian Convention, and the moment I laid eyes on her, I knew we were meant to be,” Gideon said, gazing lovingly at Kanessa.

Kanessa smiled warmly as she linked her arm through Gideon’s. “Definitely. Although, God had to confirm it for me. I had a tough time finding someone who shares my faith and loves me for all that I am—flaws, merits, and quirks,” she said, gazing lovingly at Gideon.

Gideon returned her smile, his eyes twinkling. “Baby, I love your quirks. I have mine too,” he said, his voice filled with affection.

Kanessa snickered and buried her head on Gideon’s shoulder, feeling the warmth of his embrace.

Aubrina and Dan, standing nearby, exchanged knowing smiles.

“Dare we ask?” Dan inquired, his curiosity piqued.

“Private joke between us,” Gideon replied with a mischievous grin, causing Kanessa to laugh.

Aubrina and Dan joined in the laughter. “We understand,” Aubrina said, nodding.

“So, you’re ministers. I’m going into the ministry as well,” Dan shared, his eyes shining with excitement.

“That’s wonderful. Never underestimate how God brings things about,” Kanessa said, her voice filled with conviction.

“Amen to that,” Dan agreed.

“We just wanted to give you both our well wishes. May God bless you and your ministry,” Gideon said sincerely.

“Thank you,” Aubrina and Dan replied in unison.

“You’re welcome,” Kanessa said as she and Gideon made their way out of the reception.

As they walked away, Aubrina turned to Dan. “Funny, I was going to mention to you, Dan. I want to join you in your ministry. I feel that God has a place for me in it,” she said, her voice filled with determination.

Dan smiled broadly. “I was going to ask if you wanted to join. I’ve seen how spiritual you are. It’s no coincidence that God brought us together,” he said, his voice filled with admiration.

“Same here,” Aubrina said, and they shared a tender kiss.

Suddenly, Barney, their loyal dog, barked and hurried over to them. Everyone laughed as Barney finally made his way to Aubrina and Dan. Dan scooped him up into his arms.

“There’s room for you too, Barney. Our heavenly sent fur-baby,” Dan said with a smile.

“Yes, there is,” Aubrina agreed, and Barney barked in response.

What did he say: Praises be to God!